This week on a quickie episode of the XOXO After Darkcast, we welcomed a very special guest: Bachelorette and two-time New York Times bestselling author Andi Dorfman! She tells us about life after reality TV, what it’s like to go on Celebrity Tinder, and how she likes being a single gal in NYC (hint: dating here sucks, even if you’re a gorgeous TV star).

Want even more from Andi? Don’t miss her last appearance on the Darkcast!