We’re so excited to be debuting a new recurring feature on the podcast: Ask XOXO! That’s right, we’ve coaxed people to send in their questions about anything–books, love, money, sex, you name it–and once a month we’ll select some questions to answer on the XOXO After Darkcast! Today’s questions deals with productivity and how to treat yoself (or a friend) if you’re a new mom. So listen up!

Have a question for Ask XOXO? Email us at xoxoafterdark@simonandschuster.com, and put ASK XOXO in the subject line. We want to hear from you!