If you’re single and loving it, you probably didn’t care about Valentine’s Day yesterday. But for those of us eager to find a romantic partner, the holidays–especially Valentine’s Day–can be tough. So we’ve turned to Preston Smiles and Alexi Panos, inspirational speakers and creaters of the Bridge Method, to give us some advice about how to find that soul mate before next Valentine’s rolls around.

Want more advice from this gorgeous couple? Check out their book, Now or Never, for lessons and insights into how we can lead our best life in order to attract even more happiness to us.