We’ve started a new feature on the podcast: Ask XOXO! If you’ve been listening, you know that one thing we’re never shy about is expressing our opinions…so we thought we’d put that to good use by answering your questions. Today we tackle a couple of good ones: first, how do you make room for each other when you both have demanding jobs and side hustles? And second, what’s the best way to ask for a book back you’ve lent out? Listen to this week’s episode for the answers to these pressing questions, and also to discover what it sounds like when Kate uses the phrase “my boo.”

If you have a question you’d like to hear answered on the podcast, you can leave it in the comments, or if you’d prefer to stay anonymous, you can email us at xoxoafterdark@simonandschuster.com with “Ask XOXO” in the subject line! Thanks for listening!

Like what you heard? Try another episode, like our quickie on sex toys, or our interview with Adrian Liang of Amazon!