If you’re not already enjoying all our #XOXOConnects fun, why not? It’s free–all you have to do is register with XOXO After Dark, and then you can access all the videos, posts and sweeps we’ve got in store. (See the full schedule here.)

But here’s just a sample to whet your whistle…

Wendy Leigh has interviewed rock stars, celebrities, even courtesans, so she’s learned from the best about how men and women rock each others’ worlds. She’s sharing her best tips with us, and here’s a little peek!